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Marriage is often like Procrustes’ famous code of hospitality. No wonder your former strategy of ‘let’s keep going and maybe it will get better’ doesn’t work.

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Passionate Marriage: Keeping Love and Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationships

His book Passionate Marriage is a perennial bestseller, offering the general public his revolutionary approach in a pragm David Schnarch is a licensed clinical psychologist, certified sex therapist, and author of numerous books and articles on intimacy, sexuality, and relationships.

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